Turning displeased into Love

Defining Anger or Displeased 

The definition of whether someone's anger is a problem often turns on whether or not other people agree with them that their anger, and the actions they take in the name of their anger, is justified.

Angry people most always feel that their anger is justified. However, other people don't always agree. The social judgment of anger creates real consequences for the angry person. An angry person may feel justified in committing an angry, aggressive action, but if a judge or jury of peers do not see it that way, that angry person may still go to jail. If a boss doesn't agree that anger expressed towards a customer is justified, a job may still be lost. If a spouse doesn't agree that anger was justified, a marriage may have problems.

• It is more satisfying to feel angry than to acknowledge the painful feelings associated with vulnerability.
• You can use anger to convert feelings of vulnerability and helplessness into feelings of control and power.
• Some people develop an unconscious habit of transforming almost all of their vulnerable feelings into anger so they can avoid having to deal with them. 

But in reality Anger cannot make pain disappear - it only distracts you from it.

Defining LOVE

The word is mostly used according to the first definition given in the dictionary: “an intense feeling of deep affection.” In other words, love is what one feels. ... Love should be seen not as a feeling but as an enacted emotion. To love is to feel and act lovingly

Now how can you turn displeased or Anger into LOVE

1. KNOW YOUR TRUTH AND STAND BY IT… GENTLY 
2. YOU CAN’T CONTROL ANYONE BUT YOu
3. IT’S OKAY TO WALK AWAY
4. IT’S OKAY ACCEPT, LET GO AND HAVE GRATITUDE